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Burgy,
Andy
WAUNAKEE - Andy Burgy, age 9.
On Dec. 30, 1993, Andy became an angel here on Earth and on March 25,
2003, he became a real angel in heaven. His disease made his life
difficult, but he lived it with great courage and a smile on his face. He
is survived by his mom and dad, Mary Jo Burgy and his very special friend,
Todd and Brent Burgy (Ronald Dunn); his best friend and loving twin
brother, Alex; his grandparents, Gary Burgy, Sharon and Jim Cummons, and
Joe and Marione Weeks; his great-grandmothers, Elsie Laclaw, Violet
Vannatter and Emma Burgy; his Aunt Sheri; Uncle Brent; cousin, Cole; Aunt
Keri; Uncle Jay; cousin, Caleb; Uncle Rob Weeks; cousins, Nicole and
Peter; Uncle Jim Weeks; and many other special aunts, uncles and cousins,
as well as his furry companions, Lizzy, Boston, Bear and Tigger, who never
left his side.
Funeral services will be held on Saturday, March 29, 2003,
at 11 a.m. at ST. JOHN'S CATHOLIC CHURCH., Monsignor James Gunn will
officiate. Friends may call on Friday, March 28, 2003, from 5 p.m. until 7
p.m. at WINN FUNERAL HOME, Waunakee. Friends may also call on Saturday
from 10 a.m. until the time of the service at the church. Burial will take
place in the church cemetery.
The family would like to thank Dr. Gary
Williams, Dr. Susan Carson, the UW Burn Unit, the UW Children's Hospital,
and the UW Pain Clinic for their continued efforts to help Andy and for
their loving care; to Hospice for their care and support; to Catalyst and
Amy Yelk for their tender loving care; Heritage Elementary School teachers
and all of the wonderful friends he made there; Meriter Hospital and Sun
Prairie Health Center and all other friends, family and community that
helped support us through Andy's life. Through his short life Andy was
able to touch many lives.
Andy, you are one of our special sons. You have
given us so much in your short life. It is now time for you to spread your
wings and fly where there is no pain. Where you can freely run, jump and
play. You worked very hard here on Earth to get to heaven. We are sure you
are having the best time at Camp Heaven. Our hearts break today, but there
are also full of your smile, giggle and your love. Our lives changed when
you entered it and they change now with you gone. We are so honored that
God chose us to be your family. You may not live withy us here on Earth,
but you will live in our hearts forever. We love you and miss you,
Poohbear.
Love, Mom, Dad and Alex.

Boy With Rare Skin Disease Dies
Andy
Burgy Died After Deciding He Didn't Want Another Transfusion And Didn't
Want To Use His Feeding Tube.
Wisconsin State Journal
Friday,
March 28, 2003
Beth Williams Wisconsin State Journal
WAUNAKEE
Nine-year-old Andy Burgy died Tuesday afternoon from complications of a
rare genetic skin disease that made it painful for him to be touched.
But Andy
never complained and how he lived his life touched everyone who knew him,
family and friends said.
"He
never understood what his courage meant," his mom, Mary Jo Burgy, said.
"He was a silent hero. He was a silent teacher."
Andy had
epidermolysis bullosa. The genetic skin disease causes the outer layer of
the skin to blister and slough off at a mere touch, leaving behind painful
wounds that resemble severe burns. There's no cure for the disease and no
treatment other than narcotic painkillers and bandaging the skin.
Andy's
story convinced construction firms to work together to build an addition
to the family's home so Andy wouldn't have to endure a torturous trip
upstairs for baths and bandage changes.
After
his story was featured in the Wisconsin State Journal in January, area
schoolchildren began sending cards, poems, and letters and hosting penny
wars to raise money for the family.
"We
totally appreciate anything everybody has done for Andy," Burgy said. "I
stopped at 200 (thank-you notes) and I just have pages and pages left and
I just can't do anymore."
Andy and
his fraternal twin brother, Alex, who doesn't have EB, were in the same
third-grade classroom at Waunakee's Heritage Elementary. Children there
have been told about Andy's death and are doing as well as can be
expected, Principal Sheila Weihert said.
"The
kids are taking it in an appropriate way -- they're sad," Weihert said.
"We had some giggles because we remembered the neat things about Andy. It
was everything from his very fast wheelchair and how he talked about
running over teachers and the principal, jokingly, of course, to his
wonderful art and his neat cursive."
The
school plans to build an outdoor memorial to Andy with a bright blue bench
because that was his favorite color. Plans also call for a butterfly bush
because third-graders release butterflies and it's a symbol for EB. The
memorial would also have plenty of rocks because Alex collects them,
Weihert said.
Alex has
packed a small velvet bag of his favorite rocks to be buried with Andy.
Andy's
funeral is 11 a.m. Saturday at St. John's Catholic Church, 209 South St.,
Waunakee.
About
six weeks ago, Andy's worsening wounds meant he needed a blood
transfusion. So the family took him to UW Hospital.
Two
weeks later, Burgy said, Andy needed another transfusion and would require
more frequent transfusions for the rest of his life.
Andy
didn't want another transfusion and Burgy said the family decided the
trips were too much for a child who couldn't stand to be touched.
Without
the transfusions, Andy would just fade away, doctors said.
"He was
in an incredible amount of pain," Burgy said. "Just getting him to the
transfusion ... It didn't make any sense to us and it didn't make any
sense to Andy."
Nine
days before he died, Andy decided he no longer wanted to use his feeding
tube.
"All of
a sudden about 11 a.m. (Tuesday) he just sort of looked at me, but like he
was looking through me," Burgy said.
For the
next 50 minutes, Andy had small seizures but didn't say anything. The
boys' father, Brent Burgy, pulled Alex out of school.
"(Alex)
said Mom, Andy is looking at God right now' and he gave him a hug and
kiss," Burgy said. "He went back to school and Andy died while he was
gone."
Burgy
spent the next three hours or so just holding her son.
"I was
hanging on to him," she said. "It was the first time I was able to hold
him in forever. It was wonderful."
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A rare skin disease makes a boy's
life painful... and a bath for him is an excruciating experience, but says his
mother, "He never complains."
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Andy's Courage
Story by Beth Williams
Photos by John Maniaci
Waunakee - When 9-year-old Andy Burgy cries out in
pain, the first impulse is to comfort him with a hug. That's about the
worst thing you could do.
"I certainly can't snatch him up and squeeze the living
daylights out of him," says his mother, Mary Jo Burgy. "We have our
own gentle hugs we do here. And even when I do that, I end up
hurting him.
Andy was born with a rare genetic skin disease called
epidermolysis bullosa. It causes the outer layer of his skin to
blister and slough off at a mere touch.
"The skin will wrinkle up like a piece of tissue paper
and slide off," says Dr. Gary Williams, Andy's pediatrician at UW
Hospital.
Wounds that look like severe burns mottle Andy's face
and about 90 percent of his body.
Andy's hands, which are often busy drawing, show what
doctors call "mitten deformity." The normal rubbing of the fingers
against each other causes the skin to be lost and the fingers to fuse
together.
And then there's the pain. Williams compares it
to the burn or a scrape that never heals.
Patients have to endure excrutiating baths and bandage
changes. Most need heavy painkillers most days.
The pain touches Andy's mother and father, too.
"As a parent, you're supposed to be able to protect
your children from certain things," says Andy's dad, Brent Burgy, 34.
"And you can't protect him from his pain, and I think that's the worst
part."
A quiet child, Andy is used to people asking him how
he's doing.
"How's it going in there, Andy?" his mother calls from
his bedroom as Andy works up the courage to immerse his bandaged body in
bath water, which feels like acid to him.
"Good," he yells back.
"That's his answer all the time," she says. "He
never says he's bad. He never complains."
* * *
Andy is Brent and Mary Jo Burgy's older son by about a
minute.
Andy's fraternal twin brother, Alex, doesn't have the
disease. Like their parents, Alex carries a recessive gene for it.
Mary Jo Burgy says she had the perfect pregnancy.
It wasn't until Andy was born that she realized there was a problem.
"He had blue nail beds and the skin was missing on his
middle finger and there were blisters around his mouth," Burgy, 34, says.
It would be a week before the Burgys could take Andy
home. "I had to learn how to take care of him," Burgy says.
There were nipples with wider openings for baby
bottles. If Andy sucked too hard, blisters could form in his mouth.
For those first years, Andy wore a few bandages, but
otherwise it was hard to tell the boys apart.
Burgy recalls picking up a toddler and swinging him.
"All of a sudden, I'd go, 'Oooh, wrong one,' " she
says.
Andy developed a bit slower, but he did basically
everything his brother did, until about two years ago.
Then blisters began appearing more frequently and in
more places.
He was bleeding and worn down, so doctors inserted a
feeding tube to make sure he got enough nutrition.
By last summer, scar tissue had built up around his
joints, making him unable to walk, so he started using a power wheelchair.
Over Thanksgiving 2002, doctors tried a skin graft to
slow the disease, but the cadaver skin wouldn't adhere.
His parents are aware of how much things have changed
since he was a baby.
"There was pain, but it seemed at least when he was
younger... you could pick him up. You could console him," Andy's
father says. "But now, with him, there's no way to hold him that's
comfortable for him."
* * *
The boys' mother works days as a social worker at the
Sun Prairie Health Care Center. Their father works nights in
admitting at Meriter Hospital. The Burgys are separated. Brent
Burgy lives nearby in DeForest. Each parent cares for Andy while the
other works.
But Alex is Andy's near-constant companion.
The boys are in the same third-grade classroom at
Waunakee's Heritage Elementary School, on the days Andy feels well enough
to attend.
On the day after Christmas, Andy is comfortably in bed
with his new Harry Potter pillow and comforter. Alex runs around
with new toys.
Alex hands Andy what might be his favorite Christmas
gift - an electrician's voltage detector.
It looks like a fat pen and it lights up and beeps when
it detects a current, including static electricity. Andy practically
plays a sonata as he uses the detector to pick at his bandages and skin,
which constantly itches.
Sick of the beeping, Alex tells him to knock it off.
"That's annoying and you know that," Alex says.
Andy just grins.
Alex retaliates, snatching Andy's Beanie Baby, a fuzzy
red teddy bear, throwing it around, then tickling Andy's chin and neck
softly with the wisps of the bear's fur.
Both boys giggle hysterically.
"Stop, I can't breathe," Andy squeaks.
"Well, you've got air," Alex replies.
The boys have always been very close. Alex says
he and Andy are going to share a room until they go to college.
"I've noticed when I get here in the morning their beds
are pushed up together," the boys' father says.
"The one I worry about the most is Alex because Alex
doesn't like to see his brother in pain. He doesn't want to be
anywhere near his brother on bath nights, which I don't blame him for
because I can't stand it either."
* * *
At the end of December, the family celebrates the boys'
9th birthdays at Waun-A-Bowl.
Alex shreds the wrapping paper on his gifts in seconds.
Andy is much more deliberate.
"Alex, help me give this a pull," Andy says.
Andy tells his dad to fold the tape over on his next
present.
"It's too sticky," Andy says as he tries to unwrap
another gift.
Andy is wary of what the tape could do to his fragile
skin.
He's tired, slumping in his chair. Tears glisten
in his eyes.
* * *
Andy has one of the most severe forms of EB, recessive
dystrophic epidermolysis bullosa.
The disease is caused by a defect in a gene that
prevents the skin's top layer, the epidermis, from adhering properly to
the bottom layers.
Since his birth, Andy's parents learned each of them
carry the defective gene even though they don't have the disease.
They had a one in four chance of passing it on.
EB's most severe forms affect about one in every
500,000 people.
Many people with severe EB succumb to infection, heart
failure or malnutrition before adulthood.
"We've always hoped Andy would be the exception,"
Andy's father says.
A few people with EB live into their thirties.
Right now, other than bandage changes and painkillers,
little can be done for Andy.
"This disease is the worst thing anyone could ever
have," his mother says. "The pain is the worst part because you
can't fix it. You're so helpless as a mom because you can't do
anything.
"All this stuff, it seems like it's stuff to keep him
going because nothing is going to make him better," she says.
Medical science is pretty helpless right now, too.
"This is a disease without a treatment," says Martin
Hassner, executive director of the Dystrophic Epidermolysis Bullosa
Research Association of America.
"The best you can do is constantly clean the wounds and
bandage," he said. "You hurt the child when you're trying to help
them. It's just mean."
* * *
Twice a week, Andy's bandages have to be changed and
his battered skin is washed.
Before he starts, he's given morphine through his
feeding tube. Once in the tub, he sucks on a lollipop laced with the
painkiller fentanyl. He usually has one or two suckers a day.
On bath nights, he has four.
This is in addition to three daily doses of another
narcotic, methadone.
When he gets out of the water, he'll be given more
morphine, and the anesthetic midazolam, which clouds his memory.
Around 4:30 p.m. on a recent Friday, Andy is placed in
a blue foam bath chair, which can be lowered into the water using a remote
control. Cartoons blare from the bathroom television.
He draws his breath in sharply at the tepid water's
touch.
He soaks for about two hours, working up his nerve to
get wet all over.
Nurse Amy Yelk, who comes to help his mom change the
bandages, tells him he has to lower himself farther.
Andy nods and jerkily drops himself, hissing as the
bath water bites into his blisters.
His mother is in his bedroom. She has spread old
blankets on Alex's bed and put clean linens on Andy's.
She cuts burn dressings into shapes to fit Andy's
wounds. The Acticoat dressings are sparkly black on one side and
silver on the other. Each 16-by-16 inch sheet costs $100. It
takes two and a half sheets to cover Andy.
They cost so much because they are made with real
silver, which is supposed to heal wounds. She also prepares
antibacterial gauze and sleeve-like bandages with swirls of purple and
blue.
"I tie-dye it every week," Burgy says. "Most of
his boo-boos ooze. When you have white dressing and oozing stuff it
makes people stare even more."
Experts estimate a family with a child with EB can
spend $30,000 to $50,000 a year on bandages. Andy's care is covered
through private insurance and a Medicaid program.
Andy yells that he's ready to get wetter, and he wants
his mom's help. With a shower brush she dribbles water on his back.
"Tell me what you want to do next," she says.
"Should we do your arms?"
Andy hisses in response.
"Ow," he exclaims as water hits a tender spot.
"I'm sorry, I'm sorry," his mother says.
Andy stares at the television and soaks a few more
minutes, while his mother goes into the other room.
"Mom," he cries. "Ready."
Andy shrieks in pain as his mother carries him about 20
feet to Alex's bed.
With deft, frantic movements Burgy injects midazolam
and morphine into his feeding tube. He's still crying.
Burgy sits at his side and gently strokes his hair,
telling him to try to go to sleep. He cries and shivers in the hot
room as the Disney Channel drones from a television set mounted on the
wall.
"What's Alex doing?" Andy asks.
"He's eating cereal and watching Lizzie McGuire," she
answers. The living room television can be heard as well as sporadic
thuds as Alex bounces a large blue ball.
Finally, Andy falls into a sort of sleep and the women
start to cut off the old bandages.
When the dribble antibacterial soap and water onto his
wounds, he's awake and screaming.
"Stop," he screams. "Please stop. Stop
touching me. Stop it this minute. I mean it."
He whines "stop" softly.
"I know honey," his mother says. "I've got to
clean it."
The women work quickly, dribbling water onto the wounds
and dabbing them with sterile cloths. Next they apply the silver
bandages. Andy tries to rip them off.
Then come the gauze patches for the wounds that aren't
quite as bad. Then his legs are wrapped in sterile gauze and the
tie-dyed bandages are slipped on.
The women start cutting off the bandages on his arms
and the screaming starts again.
"Kill me, kill me, kill me," he screams.
"Andy, don't say that," his mother says. "We're
almost done sweetie. I know it hurts."
There is blood all over the blanket, so they get
another one to put on top of him.
The women try to comfort him, telling him it's all
right.
"It's not OK," he says.
"It's not OK, I know," his mother replies quietly.
His mom washes his hair and they begin taking bandages
off from his chest. Andy starts to scratch at the skin that was
under the bandages.
Carefully, the women turn the blankets beneath him so
that he's facing Yelk, who holds him while his mother races to bandage his
back.
He screams "stop" over and over. His mother holds
him while the last bandages are applied. He cries, "Hurry, hurry."
When it's done, he sits on the edge of the bed and
cries. He leans into his mother who puts a hand gently on his arm.
Her other arm is around him barely touching.
After he calms down, she puts him in his bed and he
falls asleep.
The bath took nearly four hours and Andy, who usually
doesn't talk about his painful wounds, won't remember a thing when he
wakes up.
Asked about the ordeal, Andy says: "It's a good
thing I don't remember it."
* * *
Bath nights have gotten better. They used to take
12 hours without the anesthetic because Andy would insist on pulling off
the bandages himself slowly, his mother said.
Until the end of December, she had to carry Andy
upstairs to the family's only bathtub for his bath and back down to his
bed. The trip was excruciating for them both.
Construction workers and dozens of other volunteers
added on to the family's home, building Andy a first-floor-bedroom and
bathroom he can easily maneuver his wheelchair in. The bedroom is
large enough for Alex, too. At a cost of $30,000, it was a luxury
the family could not have afforded.
"He's got everything he needs in here," Burgy says as
Andy wheels around his new bedroom. "This is the happiest I've seen
him in weeks."
A local artist painted a Harry Potter mural on the
walls.
"I like it," Andy says.
* * *
The family doesn't often talk about the disease's
progress.
"Alex doesn't say much about it," the boys' mother
says. "He gets scared when his brother goes to the hospital because
he's afraid his brother won't come back."
The boys have therapists who are working with them on
these issues.
"Right now, (Andy is) just very afraid of his pain and
that it's going to get worse," she says. "He's a perfectionist and
he's very dedicated to everything he does, and he doesn't want to
disappoint anybody or have to give up. And he's very worried about
when he'll have to give up."
Doctors have not said how much time Andy has.
"Some days, you hope it's soon," Burgy says.
"Other days when he's laughing and giggling, you think he's fine and will
be around forever.
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How you
can help
Donations to the Andy Burgy Fund can be sent to the
Waunakee office of the State Bank of Cross Plains, 610 W. Main St.,
Waunakee, 53597. Deposits can also be taken to any State Bank of
Cross Plains branch.
For more information on epidermolysis bullosa, see
the Dystrophic Epidermolysis Bullosa Research Association of America Web
site at www.debra.org. DEBRA can
also be reached at 212-868-1573 or DEBRA, 5 West 36th St., Room 404, New
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People lend a hand to make
Andy's life better
By Beth Williams
Wisconsin State Journal
Waunakee - For the first 8½
years of Andy Burgy's life, his family quietly cared for him without help.
But when other Waunakee residents
learned of Andy's condition, they wanted to help.
Andy, 9, suffers from a rare genetic
illness that causes his skin to blister and fall off at the slightest
touch.
Twice a week, his mother had to carry
him up and down stairs to the family's only bathtub to soak and change his
bandages. For Andy, being carried is excruciating.
In three weeks in December, volunteers
built the Burgy family a downstairs bathroom and bedroom.
"He's comfortable in here and
it's nice because we haven't had to carry him anywhere," said Andy's
mother, Mary Jo Burgy.
Donors picked up the $30,000 cost.
"Everybody wanted to help,"
said Phil Simon, president of Michael F. Simon Builders. He helped
coordinate the 12 building companies, 22 subcontractors and six
lumberyards that worked on the project.
Third-graders in Andy's class raised
about $1,400.
But the village of Waunakee couldn't
waive its $131 building permit fee.
"The village said, 'We really
feel bad we can't waive this fee, but it sets a precedent,' " Simon
said. " 'Oh, but when you come, you don't have to bring a
check. The secretary at the front desk and her family just paid for
it.' "

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Rareness of disease
discourages research
By Beth Williams
Wisconsin State Journal
Most people have never heard of the
rare and potentially fatal skin disorder called epidermolysis bullosa.
That's why it's important people know
about 9-year-old Andy Burgy, his mother Mary Jo Burgy said.
The Waunakee boy suffers from EB, a
genetic disease where the top layer of the skin doesn't adhere to the
bottom layers. This means the skin can blister and slide off at the
slightest touch.
There are several forms of EB ranging
from a few blisters on the hands and feet to internal blistering that
usually causes death in infancy. It isn't contagious.
Skin helps regulate the body's
temperature, keeps nutrients and fluids inside the body and helps protect
against infection," said Dr. Gary Williams, Andy's pediatrician at UW
Hospital.
"If your skin is lost or doesn't
work right, all these factors become issues," Williams said.
"Susceptibility to infection is a very big problem."
Many with severe EB don't survive to
adulthood, Williams said.
Research has been slow at times,
because it's hard to get researchers to devote time to a rare,
little-known disease, said Martin Hassner, executive director of the
Dystrophic Epidermolysis Bullosa Research Association of America.
The Defense Department has long
offered research money because of its interest in wound treatment, but
researchers have submitted few proposals, he said.
The amount of money available is small
compared to resources for many other diseases.
Researchers at Stanford University are
testing new ways of fixing defects in the gene that cause recessive
dystrophic epidermolysis bullosa, the type of EB Andy has.
Stanford researchers have developed a
bacteria to transport a normal gene into the body. This method has
worked in mice, allowing them to grow normal skin. But they haven't
tested the technique in humans yet.
"There's no reason not to have a
very optimistic view," Hassner said.
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Mary Jo, Alex, Lizzy, Brent and Jon cheer Andy
up.

Jon, Brent, Todd, Andy, Alex and Mary Jo enjoy a weekend away.
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